Relationship Footprint: Romantic Preferences

If you're in an intimate relationship, you're invited to rate how much you value your partner doing each of the 50 actions listed below. After rating the actions to indicate which are most important to you, you can send the results to yourself by email or share them with someone else. Click here to skip this page.

Answer Key
Not particularly interested
Modestly enjoyable
A real turn-on
Wow!
Romantic Preferences	Your Rating
Preparing a special meal for me.
Doing a chore without being asked.
Bathing me.
Asking me to go for a walk.
Giving me a massage.
Giving me a card.
Giving me flowers.
Opening a door for me.
Looking deeply into my eyes.
Kissing me.
Praising me in front of others.
Giving me a thoughtful gift.
Giving me an expensive gift.
Writing me a love note.
Showing up at work by surprise.
Taking me out to eat.
Snuggling in bed.
Carrying packages for me, etc.
Listening to music together.
Calling me endearing names.
Giving me a surprise party.
Giving me a romantic clothing.
Writing me a love letter.
Writing me a poem.
Going on a picnic together.
Taking a shower together.
Sitting in a hot tub together.
Celebrating our anniversary.
Celebrating my birthday.
Celebrating Valentine's Day.
Giving me a special holiday gift.
Going away for the weekend together.
Staying home together.
Sleeping in late together.
Going to a movie.
Taking me to a sporting event.
Accompanying me to a sporting event.
Holding hands.
Hugging/Embracing me.
Cuddling on the couch.
Sitting by a fireplace together.
Using candlelight.
You initiating sex.
Running errands for me.
Telling me you are proud of me.
Reassuring me of your commitment.
Supporting my time alone.
Supporting my hobbies.
Participating in my hobby with me.
Speaking words of love.
Total Romantic Preference Points

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