"PAIRS has made a huge difference in our lives. Our communication is better than it ever has been and if it starts to get off I know we have the tools to get back on track. Because of significantly better communication skills I think our level of trust and safety in the marriage has gone up. I recommend this course to everyone who is willing to work to improve their marriage and their relationships in general."

Susan
Cincinnati, Ohio

"My husband isn't fond of these emotion based encounters but since it was our friends [teaching], I didn't have a hard time convincing him. We were blessed to be with friends who would dare to open up and reveal their struggles and situations. Even though we enjoyed all the information, I think the most valuable for us was the DTR [Daily Temperature Reading]. We don't do one very often but the habit of appreciating things our mates do has been very helpful. We also can get through to the more diffficult complaints with a request now and that had been a sore point in our relationship. We are more honest than we've ever been and laughing at ourselves and each other with love and trust that we will always be together. May God bless you and the PAIRS providers as you enrich many more marriages!"

Bev and Jerry
Maryville, Tennessee

"The course changed a 29-year marriage of confusion, hurt, silence and missed opportunities into a vibrant relationship of pleasure and trust that thrives on change and growth."

Bill and Becky
Falls Church, Virginia

"Before class my husband and I considered divorce. We had gone to a few counseling appointments, but we made no progress in our relationship. When I was invited to the PAIRS class my husband did not want to go, but I persisted and finally he accepted. Today after finishing the course we want to thank you and say this class saved our marriage. We realized that the biggest problem we had was that we didn’t know how to communicate and thanks to PAIRS things have changed, our relationship is different Thank you again to you and PAIRS!

Linda
Miami, FL

"My wife and I were going through a very difficult time. She wanted a divorce and was only going to the Pairs class because she thought that it would help me with the end of our marriage. I did not want the divorce and the PAIRS classes were fun but very difficult for us. We missed the follow up class because we were taking a trip to Paris. It was my hope that it would help rekindle the feelings we once had for each other. My wife and I had gone there for our first Valentine's trip together and it was magical for us. My wife and I continued to talk using the techniques we learned from you in the PAIRS program, while there my wife told me during the classes that she realized we were not "done" like she had thought we were. We are now doing very well together! Thank you so much for your help." 

Jeff
Reston, VA